As one who has dealt with regrets over the past few years, and has observed others in their relationships I feel led to say, "Don't get so used to someone that you no longer appreciate them. It is so easy, after knowing someone for so long, to just take them for granted. You are not guaranteed tomorrow, let alone tonight.
I Timothy 5:24 says "The sins of some are obvious, reaching the place of judgment ahead of them; the sins of others trail behind them." I have come to believe that when we die, we do not go directly to our reward, because neither our sin nor our goodness ends when we die, it extends through to the end of eternity. (feel free to ask what I mean in saying this).
